Memory shirt pillow set, Memory pillows, , loss of dad, grief gift, sympathy gift with photo, memorial gift dad, in memory of grandpa

$25.00

Shipping to United States: $7.50



Use the clothing of a loved one to create this wonderful memory pillow set, with or without a collar and photograph and poem. I take your provided shirt to create this memory shirt pillow.

This is a set of two pillows, both with insert. The main 18" pillow and a smaller one about 14" square. I have done a variety of items with the scraps, please check out the memory section to see more. I love customs, I am very open to other ideas.

The "love" is a raw edge applique. Your fabric is used in the applique and rest if fabric I provide.

Order the set or each pillow alone. If just the small choose "no closing" as none is required.

ORDER EARLY IF THIS IS EVENT SPECIFIC-- THIS ITEM WILL DEACTIVATE EARLY TO MEET HOLIDAY DEADLINES. IF YOU ARE READING THIS, I AM STILL TAKING ORDERS. I often deactivate when I receive a large request so that I don't disappoint anyone.

This is a wonderful memorial pillow, father's day gift, mother's day gift...

I take the shirt you provide and square it up, and embroider as shown in my smoke free home.

After you purchase the item, I will convo you with address to send me your clean shirts.

The large shirt usually fits an 18" square insert. But some sizes are smaller. So your pillow will come between 16 and 18" square. The smaller pillow is about 14" square, it has a zipper in the back.

I love making these Memory Pillows for many reasons -- it is something special, keeps the memory alive, and also the upcycling of a shirt is a way to keep the clothes of a missing loved one that are otherwise hard to part with.

Its a cute, fun, sentimental use for the old shirts, and is comforting for small children. It keeps our missing loved one in our lives.

Please feel free to convo prior to purchasing.

Please provide shirts clean to me.

Please provide in the notes section what the signature line of the poem should read-- (large pillow) "grandpa, dad" or other. The signature line font may vary.

Lots of ways to live a personalized life at www.carrabelle.etsy.com

Shipping from United States

Processing time

3-4 weeks

Customs and import taxes

Buyers are responsible for any customs and import taxes that may apply. I'm not responsible for delays due to customs.

Payment Options

Secure options
  • Accepts Etsy gift cards

Returns & Exchanges

I gladly accept returns and exchanges

Just contact me within: 14 days of delivery

Ship items back to me within: 30 days of delivery

I don't accept cancellations

But please contact me if you have any problems with your order.

The following items can't be returned or exchanged

Because of the nature of these items, unless they arrive damaged or defective, I can't accept returns for:

  • Custom or personalized orders
  • Intimate items (for health/hygiene reasons)

Conditions of return

Buyers are responsible for return shipping costs. If the item is not returned in its original condition, the buyer is responsible for any loss in value.

Frequently Asked Questions

Wholesale availability

I am very open to wholesale opportunities. I used to be an independent manufacturers rep. I know how wholesale works and how to support a buyer

Custom and personalized orders

Please check your personalization! If I make a mistake I will redo pronto. If you have made an error, I will remake pronto at 50% discount as a courtesy.

I love custom!

My proudest reviews are when customers use my tools to create a OOAK gift. No question or request will go unanswered.

Custom and personalized orders

I love customs! I will never share your photo, but in purchasing from my shop gives me permission to share my own photos.

Tracking an order.

Carrabelle is not responsible for errors made by the United States Post Office. I promise to ship within stated lead time. However, if your item is delayed past an "estimated arrival date" we apologize, but that is something that is outside of our control and recommend that you file a complaint with the USPS.

Tell me about osnaburg

I love using osnaburg fabric. Its a natural heavily woven cotton. It has a nice texture that many compare to linen or burlap. Many of my designs are very dense, and it takes the stitches better than a flat fabric. Sometimes there is a random thread that doesn't take the color or bleach.Just like you'd see in linen or burlap. There aren't a lot of them, sometimes we won't see one in a project, other times you'll get one or two. They are super small, visualize a single thread woven in about an inch of the fabric. The fabric may also have a slub, this is not a snag, with a hole as if you snagged a sweater. Nature doesn't create cotton uniformly and most embrace the organic look. Neither are flaws.


If I could give more than 5 stars, I would. From start to finish any questions I had, she was very fast with response along with getting the item made and delivered back. I ordered these as gifts for my sister and mother and I can’t wait until they open them. Thank you Carol for making this possible! Hope you have a Merry Christmas.


I appreciate the kindness and sympathy shared when I stated that my loss was recent. I did not experience that with others when I asked a question which is why I used this shop



They were absolutely perfect. I love them!